Where does the irrational hate of black people comes from?
I am African-Canadian with 2 engineering degrees and ask myself that question all the time, but I don’t bother anymore because I believe strongly that I contribute more to the society, and I live a better life than most of those racists. They (I am referring to irrational racists against black people only) are just jealous of black people strength, athleticism and intelligence that they don’t expect them to have. The only way to overcome it is to not need them (racists or anyone else in power).
Work hard, read as much as possible, educate yourself , build assets (buy real estate or valuable stocks) and make sure your kids are educated and of top of that let’s create and own our businesses and lands. Last, but not least, always be strong mentally and physically to scare them (racists one only) even more.
When racists avoid to sit near you in the bus or train, use it at your advantage and enjoy the empty sit near you.
When racists refrain to speak to you, ignore them too, and listen to your radio on your headphone or read your book; always love yourself and make sure to keep your family together.
Our kids need both parents and strong family values. We are blessed with physical strength, spontaneity, good health and toughness and racists will kill us for it if they have their way.
Tricks and Tips: How to stay healthy as a software engineer or IT professional?
I am a software engineer like you and by my second year I started feeling the unhealthy behavior of sitting down and coding for long hours.
Below are the steps that I took:
Avoid sitting down for more than 1 hour without getting up for a walk.
Stand up for 15 minutes every hour to code.
Take multiple short walks outdoor during working hours.
Avoid elevators unless you have no choice, use the stairs to go up and down if your office floor is lower than the 5th floor.
Avoid drinking sweet drinks or too much coffee during work hours.
Avoid eating chips or almost anything while working.
Instead of spending long hours reading manuals and documents on your computer, print them out, then take a walk and read them somewhere quiet while standing.
Stretch often while working (extend your legs, arms, rotate your neck).
Take short breaks of 2 to 5 minutes every 2 hours to read something different from your main topic. It can be news, sports, entertainment, or anything else you like. I read or write on Quora during my breaks.
Change your position frequently and don’t hesitate to stand up at your desk from time to time while working.
Make sure that your chair is always comfortable. Don’t hesitate to upgrade or get a better chair if necessary.
Here are the steps that I took to stay active and healthy:
I volunteer to organize soccer and basketball games every week via Home – Djamga – ShowUpAndPlaySports
I walk regularly at lunch time, and try to get as much sunshine as possible.
I visit a chiropractor once a month to adjust my back and neck.
I visit a certified massage therapist regularly to work on my neck, back, hamstrings, and feet.
I visit a pedicure clinic once a month for a good pedicure and foot massage.
I eat a healthy diet of mostly vegetables and fish (mostly salmon).
I drastically reduced the carbs in my diet. Every morning, I take one cup of coffee or tea with no sugar or milk and a small cake. Then, I am covered until dinner time. In the evening, I have a large meal of vegetables and fish, usually salmon.
I drink plenty of water.
I don’t drink alcohol or smoke.
It is very important to sleep well; sleep at least 6 hours per day.
You spend about 25% of your life in your bed, there you need to invest on your mattresses, pillows, bed furnitures and upgrade them regularly.
After adopting these habits, my efficiency came back. I was able to work as hard as when I was a student . I even lost weight!
Now, I can go toe-to-toe with young players and students in their twenties on the soccer field. I easily work more than 60 hours per week and still have enough time to play with my kids and enjoy a fulfilling life with my family.
I highly recommend these life-changing habits to all IT professionals and engineers so they can remain healthy and effective as they get older and busier.